Recently, a close friend of mine confided in me that she 's going through a rough patch in her marriage. So rough that most likely she's considering a divorce. The reason she 's seeking divorce is because her hubby has been cheating on her. She was so devastated and her trust in him has diminished completely. I feel sad for her and I can feel her severe pain. If I were in her shoes, I'll be stranded in misery not knowing what to do.
It's truly difficult to advise my friend what to do. It really depends on the condition and she also has to take into consideration that she has two kids with her husband. I fervently hope they can work things out for the sake of their kids. Somehow, that literally depends on her mindset to forgive and his willingness to save their marriage. I guess it takes time to cure all things in good time and hopefully she'll get over this sad episode and be her cheerful self again.
It appears that when a man cheats, the blame usually falls on the wife for not giving her hubby the best intimacy. Apart from that, they engage in affairs due to an unhappy home life and communication breakdown. Well, I'm not saying all men are likely to stray. Some women can be just as bad as well. I’m not in the position of giving judgment, as I always believe that you cannot totally understand them unless you encounter the same situation as they are. So far, my hubby is faithful to me and we still have that special spark between us.
Why are men unfaithful? Boredom? Unfulfilled Desires? Nagging wife? Pretty woman with a voluptuous body? Not getting attention? HOW TO STOP THEM?
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Thursday, February 26, 2009
Monday, November 3, 2008
Long Distance with Skype
My hubby has gone for a business trip to China last Saturday. He'll be home away from home for two weeks. Although hubby has left just a few days ago but the kiddos have been counting down the days like crazy until Daddy comes home. As usual, I've been preccupied with work, things on my own, with the kids and I am thankful to have my supportive family that helps out.
With today's fast paced high technology, the world has become easily connected with just a click of a mouse. Although we're physically separated, Skype is the system we used to chat when hubby is overseas. It's the the most popular VoIP (Voice over internet protocol) service and the best part is it provides excellent sound quality unlike other VOIP services.
Skype is user friendly, supports webcam and allows you to call other Skype users from your computer for free. Ironically enough, it seems to be the saviour for the family. We've been using this service since 2004. In the past, it would not have been possible to keep in touch like we do today what with the rates of phone bills being so incredibly high.
So if you have friends, relatives in overseas or spouse who goes on frequent business trips, then download Skype. The best part is you can see, chat and stay connected with your loved ones for free.
With today's fast paced high technology, the world has become easily connected with just a click of a mouse. Although we're physically separated, Skype is the system we used to chat when hubby is overseas. It's the the most popular VoIP (Voice over internet protocol) service and the best part is it provides excellent sound quality unlike other VOIP services.
So if you have friends, relatives in overseas or spouse who goes on frequent business trips, then download Skype. The best part is you can see, chat and stay connected with your loved ones for free.
Saturday, September 13, 2008
Detox programme: TRUDTOX
Much has been said about the detox programmes in the newspapers lately. I've heard a lot of positive feedbacks about Trudtox. Intrigued by the detox effectiveness, I decided to give it a try.I've been indulging tons of high-fat and high sugar food recently so, I guess the idea of cleansing my digestive system is timely due to the accumulated toxins over the years.
People are constantly reminded to instil healthy eating habits to adopt a healthier lifestyle. Yada, yada, I know I haven't been diciplined in food choices but some temptations are hard to say no :)
Last week, I went through a detox programme. The experience was indeed beneficial. Infact, there wasn't much effect on the first day. Somehow, on the second day I felt restless, extreme fatique, experiencing frequent toilet runs. After going through three sessions, I saw visible improvement. I used to have bloated tummy and felt lethargic at work but now....... woohoo I'm feeling so energetic and it certainly gives you the attractive glow. Another plus factor is my waistline has reduced amazingly, so now I can wear better fitting clothes.
The effects of this magical properties is remarkable. When I'm off work, I make it a point to consume this product for general well-being. The preparations are easy. Brew tea bag in a cup of hot water for 20-30 minutes before drinking.
If you haven't try it, I'd highly recommend it. All the best, folks!
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